The ego

The ego (false self-image) is born into life by others (Parents) giving the child a ((reflective)) self. The child hears, looks and feels outward towards the world. The surroundings give the little child their first self. If the parents love the child is born a positive ego. If the parents are bleak, a negative ego is born. The rest of life the child lives on the basis of this reflection. The child learns how to be liked. When school starts, we teach the child that they have flaws.

we compare ourselves with others and we are measured entirely based on knowledge acquisition. Now a new self is born based on how good you are in school and how popular you are. Identity Crisis. Poor self-confidence and negative self-esteem give birth to a new negative ego (self-image) When we are adults we retain our reflective self, we seek to be seen, listened to and accepted. time to de-identify themselves with their false self.